Creating a Productive Structure For Your Submissive

Submissive men tend to be more productive and happier when they are in a structured environment. Structure sets expectations, removes, uncertainty, and removes stress. Generally, I think most people prefer structure as it helps them maintain control in their life. Even those who are spontaneous and more creative have some structure in their life. However, the [...]
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Afternoon delight!

 It is not often that someone new pops into our lives.  For one thing we have not been looking and for another it is a rare guy who can capture her interest or make it past me vetting him if he contacts usWe do keep a profile on an adult site and rarely do we [...]
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Grecian Stairs No.9 … #sinfulsunday

So … was it worth all the cancellations, the testings, and the PLFs?Yes … oh YES!!! And it was so, so wonderful, to be climbing my favourite Grecian stairs once again this summer. But in these times, it is essential for one to dress appropriately when approaching the restaurant for dinner … so even in [...]
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A Modest Re-fit #BoobDay 224

Sometimes one just has to work through ones wardrobe … and re-try outfits on to see if they still fit … before sending Hubby off with them to the charity shop! But not before a Boobday Friday photo or two … or three … or more! BoobDay is about celebration and support. ‘Boob’ is a [...]
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My Secret Weapon: The Marital Triad – and More…. (Guest Post by AJ)

Somewhat recently, I made some guest posts on chastity and chastity devices. Based on some of the comments to those posts I just wanted to state a few things regarding those posts and any further  posts that I might make including this one. There is no one size fits all when it comes to anything [...]
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Miss Treatment: Domina Sara Medical Mistress

Miss Treatment: Domina Sara Domina Sara is a gorgeous, elegant and lifestyle dominatrix. A strict no-nonsense Lady, she’s a capable, experienced and knowledgable prodom. With an extensive career as a BDSM professional practitioner who now specialises in fetish medical sessions. … Continue reading → The post Miss Treatment: Domina Sara Medical Mistress appeared first on [...]
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Short Audio Reading from my “London Hotwife Diaries” #wickedwednesday

As I’ve mentioned before, I don’t like hearing the sound of my own voice. But I do receive lots of requests for more audio-readings from one of my Modesty Ablaze London Hotwife Diaries. So, as being away on holiday allowed for more relaxed opportunities … and more “free” time on the beach or balcony … [...]
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Vibrating Butt Plugs?

Does anyone have experience with or can recommend a vibrating butt plug? I would like one with a remote control if at all possible. I've been reading lots of reviews online but they all seem to have something negative to say. The oddly shaped ones all seem to have the same problem in that they [...]
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Pour Me Again – August 2021 Members Update Video #PMAGW

I had been intending to upload an August Newsletter Post direct from my holiday apartment. But we were having such fun … and the time just flew by … that I didn’t manage to achieve that goal. BUT, But, but … we did manage to make lots and lots of fun (and silly) videos and [...]
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No words to describe … #sinfulsunday

There are just no words to describe … how happy I feel!!! For more Sinful Happiness this weekend, just lap at the luscious Sinful lips below!!! Xxx – K The post No words to describe … #sinfulsunday appeared first on Modesty Ablaze. No words to describe … #sinfulsunday The Ultimate Male Chastity Key [...]
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My Angst

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Unorthodox Corrective Treatments (Guest Post by Edward)

I’m sure you have read about, or experienced punishment while either in a WLM,or reading about WLM. Being bent over a chair for the paddle, corner time, orbeing given the wife’s sister’s weeks worth of laundry to complete.If you have heard of the four levels of FLR’s we are at about a three.My wife’s first [...]
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Modest Window Sill #BoobDay 223

Closing the curtains … at the end of our first day back in my favourite bedroom. And hoping for lots more Boobday Friday photos to come! BoobDay is about celebration and support. ‘Boob’ is a term that is intended to be gender neutral and it includes the chests and breasts of all sorts of folks. [...]
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Wax Play Pt2 – An Essential Guide to Everything you ever Wanted & Needed to know about Wax Play

Wax Play Pt 2 Fun things to do with Hot Wax a) Experiment with dripping, pouring or painting wax on with a brush. b) There can be great artistry and beauty to wax play, this is best achieved using two … Continue reading → The post Wax Play Pt2 – An Essential Guide to Everything [...]
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Devotional Activities

 As promised, in this post I am sharing ideas on rewards and devotion activities for my husband, which are designed to strengthen his devotion to me. These are activities that he will enjoy, mainly because of the dominance aspect, but also because they will make me happy, which is what drives his devotion. The devotion [...]
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Sinful Riding … #sinfulsunday

I’m often asked “what is it that you get from your Mistressing sessions”. Well … lots of very different sensations and fun experiences of course! But … sometimes … I just enjoy having my Submissives fulfilling my regular need for some riding exercise! To discover what other forms of exercise people are getting up to [...]
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CAPTION: If You Didn’t Love the Taste of Your Own Cum…

  CAPTION: If You Didn't Love the Taste of Your Own Cum... The Ultimate Male Chastity Key Holding Experience
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Modest Driftwood #BoobDay 222

Just resting … in my favourite place … on my favourite wood. Driftwood that is! And a perfect place for a Boobday Friday photo don’t you think? BoobDay is about celebration and support. ‘Boob’ is a term that is intended to be gender neutral and it includes the chests and breasts of all sorts of [...]
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100 Days Not Out…

Monday saw the 100 day landmark reached for only the second time since we started full time chastity in April 2011. Coincidentally Mistress allowed me a ruined orgasm that night, I say coincidentally because she hasn't asked me lately how many days it has been and so I don't suppose for a moment that she [...]
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A Few Reminders

Now, that I am back writing again, I wanted to remind you of a few things:1. Readers can submit profiles of themselves.  See the profile template in the menus on the right side of the blog. This is a great way to let everyone know about yourself. You are welcome to answer all the questions [...]
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Modest Silence #wickedwednesday

“My little Cockbox is rather quiet for having such a strong sucking-motor, don’t you think?” I asked. “And your challenge is to fill it up for me without making a sound … completely silent! Do you understand?” He failed of course … and I shall probably show you his punishment in a follow-up post here [...]
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The Man Who Made The World Cum

Dave Lampert 1930-2021 Sadly last month, Dave Lampert of Las Vegas NV, founder and creator of the Sybian for Women & Venus for Men finally left the bedroom at the age of 90. This man played a huge part in … Continue reading → The post The Man Who Made The World Cum appeared first [...]
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Sinfully Happy … #sinfulsunday

I’m so, so happy … can you tell? … to be able to be regularly back in my favourite Dungeon once again! And there are bound to be lots of photos and videos to share from here over the coming months! For more Sinful Happiness this weekend, just gently spank the luscious Sinful lips below!!! [...]
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Update and stuff

It’s been a year since my last blog post. And what a year it has been. For the casual observer, things probably look fine. For the careful observer, you likely know that things have been very different for me during the pandemic. I have not been seeing fans in person for sessions or filming. I [...]
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Modest Wood #BoobDay 221

I mentioned in this week’s Wicked Wednesday how much I love a naked run in the woods. So I thought it would be fun to add a close-up-peek for Boobday Friday? BoobDay is about celebration and support. ‘Boob’ is a term that is intended to be gender neutral and it includes the chests and breasts [...]
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From Submission to Devotion

It has been some time since I posted, hasn’t it? It’s been one of those moments in life for me, where everything hit at once between personal, family, and work. The dust has finally settled. I can breathe now. Phew! I am happy to be back to writing again. It’s no secret that in those [...]
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Wilderness #wickedwednesday

I don’t know about you, but I find there’s something wonderfully “liberating” about being naked outdoors! And we are very lucky to have large woods nearby where it’s such a lovely feeling to go for an early morning run … naked of course … and feel almost lost in the Wilderness and completely as one [...]
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